My Dearest Toben,
You are my dream come true. I never knew that love and a relationship could be this rich. For years I would tell everyone that I wouldn’t settle and that is why I had never got married, but the truth is I settled in every relationship that came before you and I see that now. I have never felt more fiercely loved and protected than I do with you.
When we met all those years ago, I had no idea that God would one day bring us back together and allow us to fall in love and create a story of redemption. You have endured more pain and hurt than any one man should ever have to go through and yet you didn’t give up on life. You opened your heart and your life to love again and I’m the recipient of that love.
Not only have you opened your heart to me, you opened it to my entire family and accepted them as your own. The way you love and care for my parents, Sue, and Brendan is by far one of the most incredible gifts of your beautiful heart. But, you don’t stop there you love all of those that I love and that list is huge. I will never be able to thank you enough.
I know life and love isn’t perfect and we have plenty of our own struggles, but you don’t give up and you don’t walk away. More importantly to me is that you don’t let me walk away, you stay and make me fight through every struggle so we can together be stronger. Toben you make me laugh more than any man ever has and that is such a gift to my soul. You nurture my passions and want to see every one of my dreams come to fruition.
My prayer is that somehow I’m able to show you even a fraction of the love that you’ve shown me. That we will live out the rest of our lives loving, growing, and laughing together. I pray that we never forget the One that brought us together and that we continue to serve Him and His Church for the rest of our lives.
Toben you are the best of me and you see the best in me. I loved you from the moment we said goodbye in Chicago and I vow to love you every single day for the rest of my life. We truly are better together!
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